I Can’t Fix What I Can’t See
”If I knew, what I’ve done to you,
I could put it right.
But I’m in the dark, and you wont speak,
so I’m clueless, therefore useless.
So wont you shed some light,
so I can make it right, and promise never to repeat,
that which has made you distant from me.”
I’m talking problems and soloutions; in relationships, work, home and life.
We can only fix what we can see, and sometimes when it comes to ourselves, we are pritty blind.
Sometimes it takes another to highlight our problems and the wisest person is the one who can accept the advice and then change.
If someone is true, and has love for you, they will speak on a problem you have, so it doesnt become so big that it becomes too diffiuclt to change. If someone cares for you then they will talk.
It’s not possible to fix everything though and not all things should be. Some things need to be overlooked, some things need to be forgiven.
A reltaionship only works if there is a balance of both, and when the process is reciprocal.
Communication is the key to a healthy happy relationship, without it things fester, brood and then erupt.
You then begin to admonish your love for things they didnt even know they were doing.
Sometimes finding soloutions to our probelms is harder then finding soloutions to the problems of others.
So let life be a cycle of talk and listen, of support and being supported, of noticing and taking heed.
If the cycle is fair and constantly turning then issues are resolved.
If there’s breakdown, there will be tears.
Dont suffer in silence. It doesnt help you or anyone… but when you speak, speak from love and kindness, and you will be surprised how quickly you can come to a soloution.
Speak to help others, and let others speak on what you need help with. That way, we will all be able to fix what we cant see.
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Zishaan ‘ZuZu’ Shafi